Top 10 Tips – Pre-Mastectomy

PHOTO NOTE: This photo is from an incredible summer vacation to Glacier National Park where we hiked and enjoyed the beauty of nature by foot. Pictured from left to right are: My husband, Steven, nephew Jonathan, me and son Owen. 

INTRO: Nobody prepared me on what to expect before my mastectomy.  I got a few ideas online, but underestimated the physical and emotional impact this major surgery has on you.  While recovering, I started to write down things I wish I would have known, which eventually turned into this “top ten’ list to help you prepare for your mastectomy.  I’ve given this to other women and they found it helpful. I hope you and your caregivers will as well.

BRITTA’S TOP 10 TIPS – PRE-MASTECTOMY: 

BEFORE SURGERY:

1. Get Organized!  The American Cancer Society has a nice expanding folder with space to put pathology reports, bills, information etc.  Being organized helps your feel more in control of the situation.  As part of getting organized, clean your house really well.  You won’t want to worry about mopping the floor or vacuuming the house for the first week at least. Really hit the bathrooms and door knobs etc. to eliminate as many germs as you can to avoid infection or picking up a cold, flu etc.

2.  Ask Questions! You need to ask as many questions about your diagnosis, what is going to happen and know your plan BEFORE any surgery happens. Although it sounds obvious, write your questions down and get them answered during your doctor appointments.  Don’t leave until ALL your questions are answered.

3. Shop for loose fitting clothing and button down/zipper down tops.  Pullovers are a pain when you have limited motion. This is not a beauty contest – be comfortable!  Don’t forget to wear or bring the zip down or button down top and sweat pants to the hospital to wear coming home. Pack an extra couple pair of underwear; you won’t need to pack a bra – you’ll go home wrapped in an ace bandage or a surgical bra.  The sweat pants or stretch pants are important to make it easier to use the restroom.  No jeans or zippered pants or you’ll regret that.

4. Order all your medicines with non-child-proof caps.  Affected arm strength is limited for a number of weeks and you WILL want to easily open your meds.

5.  Line up rides and people to help you out for the first couple weeks.   You won’t be able to drive while you are on pain meds and/or have limited range of motion. People want to help you, so let them drive you to appointments or take you out for coffee if you are up to it.  Do this BEFORE your surgery and it will also give you piece of mind.

6. Stock up on easy to prepare and healthy foods (like soup, frozen items etc.) and take up people’s offers to bring your food – it really helps to not have to worry about preparing food.

7.  Stay connected. Borrow a laptop if you don’t have one.  It is really nice to be connected to friends and family and gain strength through their support.  Email your status every few days and if they ask what you need, don’t be afraid to let your close friends know you need a visit, a ride, food or anything else – they want to help, so let them!  Believe it or not, talking on the phone and giving personal updates can wear your out.  Though it may seem a bit impersonal at first sending out an email, you can do that and check replies when you feel up to it.

8.  Practice sleeping on your back.  If you are not a back sleeper, start before you have the surgery to figure this out; don’t wait until you are home from the hospital and in pain.

9.  Get your support team together.  Determine whom needs to be on your team – which doctors, religious or emotional support, and services like American Cancer Society or Living Well Cancer Resource Center (a western Chicago suburb non-profit).  Make sure all team members are informed and ready to support you. People can’t help you if you don’t let them know what is going on in your life. If you think it will help, meet with your spiritual advisor.  Let your church know what you are facing.  My church has a prayer list and a ministry volunteer dropped off a prayer shawl to me that was a great comfort during recovery.  I also receive a blessing before surgery and asked for the “Anointing of the Sick” sacrament to help me prepare mentally.

10. Meet with one (or more) plastic surgeons to get their advice and counsel.  Check their references and feel comfortable with their results and past patients.  This is YOUR body and you have to look in the mirror at yourself every day for the rest of your life.  If you decide to do reconstruction, feel good about the PS you have selected.  You can opt to do reconstruction at the same time as the mastectomy.  This avoids another surgery, but will extend your stay in the hospital.  Get all the information you need to make the decision that is best for YOU. Whatever you decide will be the right path.

4 Responses to “Top 10 Tips – Pre-Mastectomy” Subscribe

  1. Lisa July 11, 2012 at 11:57 pm #

    This is awesome info! Exactly what I was looking for as I prepare for my upcoming surgery. God bless you for sharing and may you be cancer-free forever.

    • Britta Wilk McKenna July 12, 2012 at 1:22 pm #

      Lisa – best wishes on your upcoming surgery. Try and arrange helpers before the surgery to free up your mind and allow 360 degree healing.

  2. Kate F April 6, 2012 at 2:41 pm #

    Great information! I am so glad I found your blog before surgery!

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